date squad - 8 weeks to overhaul your dating success

It’s time to transform your dating journey.

DATE SQUAD is a 12-week proven programme with supportive community that helps you date with confidence, clarity and charisma guided by world-leading expert Mel Schilling.

I’m Ready to Step Into My Dating Spotlight

Tired of bad dates and dead ends? It's time for a better plan.

DATE SQUAD is your step-by-step roadmap to confident, smart, and intentional dating—designed by dating expert Mel Schilling.

Start your DATE SQUAD journey!
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"Date Squad was the perfect reset I needed to kickstart my dating life again, to get me out of a rut and to help me really figure out what it is I’m looking for, and what I’m putting out into the dating world."

“On day one of the 7 day flirting challenge, I struck up conversations with two attractive guys I didn’t know today and felt pretty good about it! thanks Mel for the tips ” 

Want a sneak peek inside DATE SQUAD?

Watch this short video where Mel walks you through how the programme works, the powerful framework behind it, and why it could be the game-changer your love life’s been waiting for.

 
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Real people. Real results.

 

 

DATE SQUAD | enjoy dating process

said DATE SQUAD was the right balance of education & self-reflection

DATE SQUAD | feel confident when dating

felt more confident and optimistic after completing the first 2 modules

DATE SQUAD | Know yourself and alignment better

said their Date Squad journey had been really impactful

DATE SQUAD | meet quality dates

said they now have the tools to date more confidently

 

 

What You’ll Walk Away With

This isn’t just about avoiding bad dates — it’s about building the confidence and clarity to attract the right person into your life.

By the end of Date Squad, you’ll:

  • Build your self-esteem and upgrade your dating confidence

  • Gain absolute clarity about who and what you want in a partner

  • Re-programme your mindset for positive dating results

  • Learn how to filter out unsuitable matches with ease

  • Feel safer and more in control in the dating process

  • Tell your story with confidence and charisma

  • Turn inspiration into action and real-world results

Finally enjoy dating again — feeling energised, not exhausted

 

The Smarter Way to Date

Date Squad is a transformational 12-week programme created by Married At First Sight Relationship Expert, Mel Schilling. It brings together ambitious singles who are ready to date with clarity, confidence and purpose — guided personally by one of the world’s leading dating and relationship coaches.

Unlike AI-driven dating apps or cookie-cutter advice, Date Squad is built on expert coaching, proven psychology and real human connection. You’ll gain direct access to Mel through live sessions, alongside the support of a curated community who are committed to achieving the same goal as you: finding meaningful love.

DATE SQUAD is your chance to step into the dating spotlight, transform your confidence and approach, and finally attract the partner who truly matches you.

JOIN MEL SCHILLING'S DATE SQUAD PROGRAMME

£247

Prefer to spread the cost? Join for 3 x £95 monthly payments.

  • 8-module online programme (delivered over 12 weeks)
  • Lifetime access to all programme content
  • 3 months access to the DATE SQUAD online community
  • Monthly live Q&A coaching with Mel
  • Exclusive challenges and content from Mel
  • The chance to connect with a ‘dating buddy’ 

Your investment is fraction of the cost of private coaching, with lifetime access to the programme content.

Grab your spot – Starts 6th October

Say hello to a new way of dating so you can:

 

 

DATE SQUAD | enjoy dating process

ENJOY the dating process and effortlessly put yourself out there

DATE SQUAD | feel confident when dating

Feel CONFIDENT meeting new people and sharing your story

DATE SQUAD | Know yourself and alignment better

Filter out any unsuitable dates without a SECOND THOUGHT

DATE SQUAD | meet quality dates

Meet QUALITY DATES who tick the right boxes

DATE SQUAD | get excited to date

Feel INSPIRED and EXCITED by the knowledge that your next, perfect partner is right around the corner

 

 

What our members have to say about DATE SQUAD...

"I just want to say thank you. This course is making me feel so empowered so far. I'm 26 and have been feeling so ashamed about how much of a fail my dating experiences have been / my lack of experience. This has reminded me that I should not feel ashamed or embarrassed. Thank you, Mel!"

"I'm going to start seeing it as a way to quickly filter out people who aren't serious/committed to the process. The programme also provided a useful reminder that it's still possible to meet people in real life and the practical hints and tips for doing so, especially for those of us who are fast approaching middle age"

Why Mel Created Date Squad

DATE SQUAD is based on Mel’s 30-year career — including 20 years as a registered Psychologist and 15 years as a Dating Coach.

Mel spent her entire 30s as a single woman, making every dating mistake in the book and learning the hard way. Today, as a global relationship expert on Married At First Sight, she’s determined to help singles avoid the frustrations she once faced and date smarter.

She created DATE SQUAD to share her proven Strategic Dating method — a framework that combines psychology, confidence-building, and practical tools for dating with purpose. At the heart of this method is Mel’s Healthy Dating Pyramid, outlining the 4 key steps to creating meaningful, successful relationships.

Is DATE SQUAD Right For You?

DATE SQUAD is for ambitious singles who are ready to take dating seriously — and finally attract the right partner.

If this sounds like you, you’re in the right place:

  • You’re tired of going on dates that don’t match what you’re really looking for
  • You’ve had enough of ghosting, catfishing and endless dating games
  • You’re ready to feel confident, optimistic and in control of your love life
  • You believe in investing in yourself and your future relationship
  • You want expert support and a clear framework, not random dating advice
  • You’re excited to meet like-minded singles who are on the same journey

 

If you’re nodding along, DATE SQUAD is designed for you.

Start your dating transformation today!
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How does DATE SQUAD work?

Date Squad combines expert coaching, science-backed strategies and supportive community to give you a dating journey that actually works.

When you join, you’ll get:

  • 8-module online programme delivered over 12 weeks

  • Lifetime access to all programme content

  • 3 months of community support inside the Date Squad chat

  • Monthly live Q&A coaching with Mel

  • Exclusive challenges and exercises to put your learning into practice

  • The chance to connect with a supportive ‘dating buddy’
     

Overhaul your dating success and join our next cohort starting Monday 6th October!

 

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What Will You Learn?

The 12 week online learning project includes the following 8 core modules:

Look deep within your values and strengths to discover who you really are and what you have to offer.  By exploring your lessons from the past and visions for the future, you’ll develop a clearer picture about what you want from your dating experience.

This is about setting yourself up for a positive dating experience - you start by living your best life!  Surround yourself with the right people and place your focus in the right places.  Learn to appreciate and date yourself before you date others.

Re-wire your brain for a more positive dating experience.  Learn how to master the stories you tell yourself and ensure you have the best possible attitude toward yourself, your dates and future relationships.

Discover your genuine fears and learn how to expand your comfort zone without creating unnecessary anxiety.  Delve into the reasons WHY you need to change and learn how to practice smart courage.

Take control of your physical, psychological and sexual safety in your dating life.  Learn how to set clear boundaries, say NO and have respectful, impactful consent conversations.

Uncover the essence of who you are and how you show up on your dates.  Your dating brand will help you make those tricky dating decisions from who to date to what to wear.

Creating a crystal clear dating goal will make it easy to decide who should be ‘in’ and ‘out’ of your dating sphere.  Consider both online and offline tactics to ensure you have every chance of meeting your ideal, perfect partner.

It’s time to get practical!  Learn the secrets to successful flirtation, including both verbal and non-verbal skills.  Practice your new skills in a safe environment before launching yourself into the dating world with courage, confidence and charisma.

Join the next cohort starting Monday 6th October!

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Don't just take our word for it...

Hear it directly from DATE SQUAD members!

"I have found these sessions very useful and to find out what I need also to say no rather than being nice and get stuck in something that's not right"

"Date Squad has really given me tools and extra confidence for dating in the future. The live Q&A sessions with Mel were really useful and I took a lot from the practical tips in particular. Really glad I took the plunge to be a founding member!"

Join the Next DATE SQUAD Cohort

Starting Monday 6th October!

Private coaching with Mel costs thousands. DATE SQUAD gives you her proven framework, live support and a community of like-minded singles - for a fraction of the price.

Date Squad - 8 weeks to overhaul your dating success

JOIN MEL SCHILLING'S DATE SQUAD PROGRAMME

£247

Prefer to spread the cost? Join for 3 x £95 monthly payments.

What you get: 

  • 8-module online programme (delivered over 12 weeks)
  • Lifetime access to all programme content
  • 3 months access to the DATE SQUAD online community
  • Monthly live Q&A coaching with Mel
  • Exclusive challenges and content from Mel
  • The chance to connect with a ‘dating buddy’ 
JOIN NOW!

Frequently Asked Questions

If you can’t find the answer to your question here, please feel free to email [email protected] and one of our team members will be happy to help.

Your Dating Future, Reimagined

Date Squad gives you the confidence, clarity and courage to leave old patterns behind and step into a new way of dating. You will know exactly what you want, feel empowered to say yes or no with ease, and finally enjoy dating again.

Your ideal relationship is closer than you think.

Join the next cohort of DATE SQUAD starting Monday 6th October.

👉 Sign up now: £247 pay in full, or 3 monthly payments of £95

 

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